tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2538648101077174442.post1455306334411030744..comments2024-03-28T02:32:43.068-04:00Comments on Shattered Paradigm: 10 Powerful Secrets For How To Build A Great MarriageShattered Paradigmhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15108535580841006211noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2538648101077174442.post-29475130460640705782008-07-01T00:17:00.000-04:002008-07-01T00:17:00.000-04:00Great set of 10 important things for a marriage. ...Great set of 10 important things for a marriage. I wouldn't say they are secrets but with the stats on marriage now a days, they must be. I agree with them all, well thought out!unipsychohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16552872574025283514noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2538648101077174442.post-19692795814095046932008-06-06T22:39:00.000-04:002008-06-06T22:39:00.000-04:00What I like best about this top ten list (other th...What I like best about this top ten list (other than the fact that I'm already doing most of these things) is the fact that it asks us to take responsibility for our relationship, our happiness and our lives.<BR/><BR/>It seems that the matter of lust has gotten a good amount of attention here. I talk with my wife very openly, and between the two of us I certainly have more of an inclination to look at attractive women than she does to look at a handsome guy.<BR/><BR/>So although gcmman has a very good point, I happen to fall within the paradigm here. More important than "don't look," is "don't touch." Once that line is crossed, it's bad news...<BR/><BR/>Thanks for a great post!<BR/><BR/>Peace,<BR/><BR/>Joey<BR/>www.daddybrain.wordpress.comAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2538648101077174442.post-78520438389113618792008-06-05T10:21:00.000-04:002008-06-05T10:21:00.000-04:00Found you via The Manival at BuildingCamelot.com -...Found you via The Manival at BuildingCamelot.com - great list. I gave it a Stumble and I hope you continue to grow. I'll be back.<BR/><BR/>I especially liked the part about lustful images. I have a series going right now about how to break the pornography addiction.A Good Husbandhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05738145765148389379noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2538648101077174442.post-4929268277647386852008-06-04T16:49:00.000-04:002008-06-04T16:49:00.000-04:00gcmman has a point ... and it works both ways. Whi...gcmman has a point ... and it works both ways. While I think many husbands are worried about what their wives say about them to their friends, the reality is usually not so scary. (Unless the guy is doing something to hurt his wife and/or kids, in which case she might need the support for a different reason.) <BR/><BR/>True friends will look to build up a marriage, not tear it down. Sometimes knowing someone else has dealt with a similar issue ... successfully ... can be a real encouragement. Good friends can provide objective feedback that can keep a small problem from becoming a big one!<BR/><BR/>For example, if I heard a friend talk about her husband (or kids, for that matter) critically, I'd talk with her about the underlying problem that was causing this ... and perhaps suggest a book that might help. <BR/><BR/>The other points were great!Heidi Hess Saxtonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02791510605285520649noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2538648101077174442.post-40544939006136139372008-06-04T13:01:00.000-04:002008-06-04T13:01:00.000-04:00Great list. Thanks for sharing!Great list. Thanks for sharing!Rosemary https://www.blogger.com/profile/16692521812525901895noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2538648101077174442.post-35759660627650372502008-06-03T13:48:00.000-04:002008-06-03T13:48:00.000-04:00I love your top ten! I find myself doing many of t...I love your top ten! I find myself doing many of these... In addition to always saying I love you at least once, I also say never to go to bed angry as well.Dad of Divashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07036276450518783326noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2538648101077174442.post-47175944591243695042008-06-01T13:08:00.000-04:002008-06-01T13:08:00.000-04:00Thanks for participating in this week's Carnival o...Thanks for participating in this week's <A HREF="http://www.jhsiess.com/carnival-family-life" REL="nofollow">Carnival of Family Life</A> hosted at <A HREF="http://lfwaterloo.blogspot.com/" REL="nofollow">Live from Waterloo</A> on Monday, June 2, 2008! Be sure to check out the other excellent entries this week!<BR/><BR/>JHS<BR/><A HREF="http://www.jhsiess.com" REL="nofollow">Colloquium</A>JHShttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06930867710215940193noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2538648101077174442.post-66691139181986471802008-05-29T12:46:00.000-04:002008-05-29T12:46:00.000-04:00I'm just curious why you felt the need to say that...I'm just curious why you felt the need to say that #3 was "a big one especially for husbands."<BR/><BR/>So women don't look at sexy guys? And it doesn't bother men when they do?jiujitsuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12760248533099650692noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2538648101077174442.post-9551405612936628572008-05-22T20:51:00.000-04:002008-05-22T20:51:00.000-04:00Wow, this is a great article! I did not even reali...Wow, this is a great article! I did not even realize that maybe I should compliment my husband more. One thing that my husband and I have always agreed on is, "Never let the sun set on anger." We never go to bed while we are mad at each other, either we agree to disagree, or we work it out. As long as we are not angry at each other.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15883518020250184489noreply@blogger.com